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Alcohol and Other Drugs

Everyone is exposed to the temptation to try alcohol or other drugs. Some people experiment for curiosity, kicks, boredom, peer pressure or to escape problems in their lives.

Alcohol and other drugs can gradually begin to take control of your daily life. Physical or mental dependence can sneak up on you! It is important to talk to your parents or someone else you trust if you or someone you know is facing an alcohol or drug problem.

You can't be sure how you and your body will react to using alcohol or other drugs. It will depend on what you use and how much. Permanent damage can happen at any point…even with the first use of some drugs.

It is important for young people to know the risks. When used in large amounts, over a long period of time, or in the wrong combinations, alcohol and other drugs can kill. The dangers of experimentation are overdose, addiction, physical illness, death, accidents, mental impairment.

Sometimes using drugs or alcohol seems like a good idea. There may be situations that you face at home or with your friends that make you feel bad, or that you want to make go away, or you want to fit in. You may think that using alcohol or drugs "will make it better". You have a choice about using alcohol or other drugs. Sometimes it may be necessary to make a choice for yourself that is different from the choices others make. You - not others - are in charge of your choices. More information on Peer Pressure is available.

Living in a Family That Uses Drugs

Growing up in a family where a parent has an alcohol and/or other drug problem is one of the major family problems in our country today.

It may be difficult to get along with your parent who has the drug problem because s/he is not really able to think straight. Being under the influence of drugs may make him/her unfair, yell a lot, be unable to show love, and be neglectful of you or embarrass you in front of friends. Even if your parent makes decisions when not under the influence of alcohol and other drugs, his/her thinking is still affected by the many times s/he has used alcohol and other drugs.

In families where a parent is drugged up you may have been told, or just know without being told, that the rule is, "It is not OK to talk about what is going on in the family; not with other family members and not with outsiders".

This rule prevents you from getting the help that you need with your painful feelings. It also keeps the family from having the chance to get help. You are not responsible for your parent(s)' drug problems, and you can not prevent or stop their drug use. You can take responsibility to get the help you need to understand and deal with this situation. If you think that you or someone you care about may have an alcohol or other drug problem, it is important to get information about how to help yourself. Talk to someone who will listen to you - a parent, school counselor, religious leader or family doctor.

The following organizations will provide information and/or assistance (click on the agency's name for more information):

Council on Alcoholism and other Chemical Dependencies
(315)789-0310
The agency provides alcohol/drug abuse prevention and education and infomration and referral services. Programs are given on risk factors, specific durgs, and related topics such as alcoholism and the family, stress management, etc.

Trauma and Substance Abuse Resource Center
(315)789-0310
The research-based program is designed to heighten awareness abaout trauma-related substance abuse, and to provide ideas and guidance to help mitigate the effects of trauma and abuse of alcohol and drugs.

Family Counseling Service of the Finger Lakes
(315)789-2613 or (877)789-2613 toll free
Individual counseling, family counseling, play therapy, sexual abuse assessment and treatment, Hispanic youth groups.

FLACRA - Finger Lakes Alcoholism Counseling and Referral Agency
(315)462-9466
Outpatient counseling and detoxification for those aged 14 and older.

Lifeline
(800)310-1160 or TDD: (585)275-2700
Lifeline provides a variety of support and referral services including access to other agencies.

The Partnership for Ontario County Inc.
(585)396-4554
The Partnership does not provide direct services; it provides information on services which are available in the community.

Reality Check
(585)393-2924
Reality Check is a youth empowerment movement fighting the manipulative marketing practices of the tobacco industry through a variety of activities.

Park Ridge Chemical Dependency
(585)272-8330
Provides a wide range of services for those with chemical dependency problems.

Turnings
(585)396-4190
The agency works in situations of high risk of substance use, initiation of substance use, substance abuse and substance dependency

Alcoholics Anonymous
Answering Service: (315)789-5955
Alcoholics Anonymous is a self-help organization for recoving alcoholics. Call the phone number to receive information on local activities.


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